“When we choose to take these photos, it’s because a change has already begun within us. Wanting to see ourselves in a more explicit way, through someone else’s perspective, is a life process—one of deep learning and discovery.
It’s a journey of self-acceptance and the ultimate act of generosity toward ourselves. It takes a bit of courage because we’re so much more accustomed to criticism than compliments.
I chose you because I could already see your generous gaze in your photos! I needed that warm reception and a ‘hug’ for the most just cause in life: learning to love oneself.
The moment I arrived at your studio, I understood your ‘generous gaze.’ Your gaze wasn’t just for me but for the woman I wanted to see in the photos—the woman I needed to confirm was truly within me.
And that’s how I fell in love with this sweet moment. I felt at ease, cared for, embraced, free, and most importantly, I felt SPECIAL.
Thank you, Mari. The experience was infinitely better than I expected. And I can confirm that in every photo, in the millions of times I’ve flipped through my album. My feeling is one of gratitude. You confirmed what I wanted and needed to see in myself!
Self-esteem is a painful process. Accepting ourselves isn’t an easy task. It requires immense compassion and kindness toward ourselves.
Today, when I look at the photos, I can confidently say that I am a wonderful woman, with no false modesty. I needed this confirmation—to have this tangible page written into my life.
I’m different from who I was yesterday, and I’m certain that this is a daily process. Every time I have doubts, I have the photos to prove it.”
